Young & Strong

  Have you ever noticed how when you dislike or hate someone, anything they say or do come off to you as annoying or off putting or make you mad without any reasons behind it. Even if that person just acts normally and is carrying on with their lives. You just can't stand their every breathing moment! That, my friend, is what we call Hate Lenses ! A lens that you see the world in, which is completely false, and is swayed by your emotion. Let’s say that person I talked about earlier is talking about factual evidence. You’d still doubt it or dismiss it just because the mouth speaking it doesn’t sit well with you. That’s a WRONG way to respond to the outside world. Your emotions shouldn’t dictate facts. Your emotions shouldn’t cloud your judgment. Your personal opinion can sway certain interactions with said person but you should always receive outside data with an objective manner. Hate Lenses happen in our close relationships too! Let’s say a couple argue and they’re mad at each oth...

Love is random. It hits you unexpectedly and you find yourself attached to a person that may not share the same feelings as you do to him. And as much as we'd like it to be false, most of the times, the feeling isn't mutual. So that's when the hurting and suffering starts, and that's why many people hate love. When someone loves you, you feel like you owe him something, you feel like you should behave in a certain way. You start to sabotage their feelings towards you, even try to lead them to hate you. Sometimes, you even agree to the so called love and try to fake it just so the other person can be happy, it's like a bargain chip to your uneased conscious. But it's all a scam, you're lying to yourself and lying to the other person, you shouldn't feel guilty if you don't share the same feeling as the other person.  You shouldn't behave in a certain. You shouldn't fake love just so the other person gets to be happy ...