Young & Strong

Everyone is a gamer right now! Everyone is gaming! Games and videogames are no longer nerdy and not only the dorks play them! They became mainstream and they became cool! Well I was part of the unlucky few that were dorky and nerdy in their own little small sphere and I was really hooked on RPGs (Role-Playing Games). RPGs are games where you create a character and give it a class like a warrior or a mage or a monk,etc and then you add stats like strength endurance intelligence and so on and so forth. You personalize your character; sex, appearance and apparel and then give it a name and hit START. Usually you start with a level 1 character and 0 Gold and then you have to work your way to the top. You have to EXP (gain experience to fill a bar to level up) and you have to earn Gold. Leveling up raises your stats so you become more powerful or less susceptible to damage or have more chances to gain Gold, etc. Gold allows you to have better weapons, better clothes and better “living condi...

The sight of mediocrity I see every day irritate me. I see people who’ve settled for less when they could’ve had more, so much more. More than what they’re settling for. So much lost potential, talents going to waste, geniuses not exploiting their god given gifts. And it’s truly sad! Most people don’t aspire for greatness, don’t use their full potential. They take their lives for granted and don’t do anything to change. Those kind of people for me are losers! I may sound like a douchebag, but I tell it how I see it. The reason why there is such losers in our society is because losing became such a normal thing. Living as a loser is living as a  normal  human being. Living as a winner is living as an extreme human being, or some call it living as a “lucky” person. And so it is advertised, putting the normal bar to a person is a person struggling in life, full of debt, having a crappy lifestyle and a crappy relationship with his entoura...

Being rich was the only goal I had since I was a child, since I was born in a modest family with a modest income, seeing kids having what I couldn't have unlocked that ambition within me. I didn't know what I do know now, all I wanted is to have the money to buy me that expensive toy so I can feel happy for an instance and then want a bigger one; sadly, billions still have this mindset, the mindset of a 6 years old, they think they're poor and their on a quest for fortune. I've constantly watched very wealthy people who had it all; all the big toys the lesser class dream of, however the happiness that it should be within them is none to be found. I couldn't understand, how is that even possible? The ads on the TV said if I bought this car I'll be ecstatic, and here they are owning it and far from ecstasy... Yeah they're rich, loads of money in their bank account, but are they really rich? You see richness comes from deep within. It do...

Think again. What makes you poor? Not able to afford that fancy car you wanted ? What about not able to pay off your students loans ? What about not being able to pay last month's rent ? Do you have food on your table? Do you need to walk 10 kms to find drinking water ? How about this, do you think you can be homeless in a split of a second ? What are you lacking that it made you think.. Oh poor me, I don't have such and such therefore I'm poor ? Poverty in it's truest form is when you're struggling on a daily basis for natural needs; food, drink and shelter. If your dad already got that covered then I got news for you. YOU aren't poor. Better yet, the fact that you're currently reading this article, you are NOT poor. Forget about what they tell you about poverty . People in Africa are poor, not the whole continent but parts of it. The homeless guy you see in the street every night is poor. The guy who recently got bankrupt is now poor. Thes...

O nce upon a time, in land far far away there was a piece of metal, he lived happily with his family the metals; he spent all his childhood days playing with his friends not caring about the world, everything seemed okay to him and he never questioned anything. The piece of metal grew up and it was time for him to go to " the factory of metals ", you see the factory is a must for metals his age to go, because if he wouldn't go he'll spent his life rusting until he dies; he didn't question this rule so he went to the factory like all his friends did. The years he passed in the factory were horrible to him, he felt he was just wasting his life there but the machines there always kept reminding him of the fate of those who drop out of "the factory" so he listened as the good boy he is and stayed. All this time in the factory, the machines were just knocking on his body, everyday went on like that until it became normal, the knocking and the shape sh...

Who can say that money isn't crucial in someone's life, no one, unless you're still living in the prehistoric ages where trading was trending. If you want to live like a hippie and survive from crops and fruits be my guest, but this isn't the 60's; it's the 21 century and everything essential for life is bought by money. A little bit can assure that you stay alive, a lot can assure that you live a life. Let's be honest and acknowledge its important and stop the let's pretend games. Then the one million dollar question pops in, how to acquire a lot of money ? Many will claim to know how but a few actually do and I doubt that they'll share with the rest of us, unfortunately I am not one of them -at least not now- but what I do know is a particular methods to preserve your hard gained earnings. The methods are simple, easy to follow and even obvious, you might know them all and always hear people talking about them but what matters isn't ...

As a writer I sometime lack creativity, I'm ready both physically and mentally to write but nothing comes to the mind, I try to squeeze that gray matter no matter how hard and I still fail, so I just abstain until later. But in other days, when I'm just sitting around doing nothing, stuff just start pouring in my head; lewd scenarios, weird projects, distant memories, all kind of things. Boredom was accompanying me all my life and I always considered it as a bad thing. I can admit that it has it's bad sides but also it has it's good ones too. I wonder if the Wright brothers didn't feel bored in their home would they ever decide to plan and build a plane. I'm pretty sure I'm wright ! Or Mark Zuckerberg in college, I'm positive that boredom is what drove him to create that website that lead to the creation of the most famous social network on the planet. And just remember how many awesome doodles you made while your teacher was babbling none se...

Recently, I've been reading a great book called Models by Mark Manson , it talked about attracting women through honesty, and by honesty he meant being honest with and to yourself as well as with your significant other, and he summarized it all by this sentence: " Stop Being Needy ", and I did encounter this term in PUA (Pick-up Artist) forums a lot, but there, they were just talking about being clingy towards a women will turn her off and some other advices about being alpha male and other bullshit. In the book, Mark made anything that wasn't true to yourself, and by that anything that was done  to just seek validation, to impress someone, or to lie about who you truly are, is Needy. To stop being needy you need to stop: Seeking Validation: We all seek validation once in a while to feel better about ourselves but by that you only harm yourself, since you don't appreciate yourself but wait for someone to give his approval to feel better. This ...

  Have you ever noticed how when you dislike or hate someone, anything they say or do come off to you as annoying or off putting or make you mad without any reasons behind it. Even if that person just acts normally and is carrying on with their lives. You just can't stand their every breathing moment! That, my friend, is what we call Hate Lenses ! A lens that you see the world in, which is completely false, and is swayed by your emotion. Let’s say that person I talked about earlier is talking about factual evidence. You’d still doubt it or dismiss it just because the mouth speaking it doesn’t sit well with you. That’s a WRONG way to respond to the outside world. Your emotions shouldn’t dictate facts. Your emotions shouldn’t cloud your judgment. Your personal opinion can sway certain interactions with said person but you should always receive outside data with an objective manner. Hate Lenses happen in our close relationships too! Let’s say a couple argue and they’re mad at each oth...

Why are we here ? What we doing here ? Where are we going ? And what is the meaning of life ?  I'm pretty sure you had these questions or something like them pop up in your  head and gave you a migraine, you looked for answers in religion or science or whatever, you might had your answers or you might not but that doesn't matter as long that you haven't answer some more important  questions  .   Why am I here ? What am I doing here ? Where am I going ? And  what is the meaning of my life ?  Those are the primary questions that you should seek before getting  anymore deeper, then if you don't and still look for the overall picture then you're like pouring water in sand. Unlike centuries from now, our ancestors had it easy in the matter of purpose, men were supposed to provide for the family and keep them safe,  the women were supposed to raise the children and give emotional support  to the men. It was easy and clear...